Showing posts with label #Passion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #Passion. Show all posts

Monday, 24 August 2015

Mental Agility –Staying Fresh, being Agile!

Feeling the past to see the future.. One small step for man… One giant step for….

We all would like to walk on the moon like Neil Armstrong and his Apollo crew but sadly, the nearest most of us will get is on a 737 airbus to our next work destination or vacation spot of choice! As we get older our dreams augment to a point where reality salvages what dreams are plausible to circumstance and leaves the rest for the garbage collector to remove as they are unassigned to our greatest variable, which is our reality! Sounds familiar eh? As we all reach that point, how successful are we in coming to terms with our “reality” and staying mentally flexible for best possible outcome each and every day??

I would wager a minority are successful in creating a yellow brick road of strongly focused thought that creates new opportunities through the axiom of mental agility. It’s no surprise many don’t given economic crises, redundancies, career, family and life. The average person has enough on their plate to last them a lifetime! Getting through it all is reward enough! I won’t argue that point as life can be very harsh for so many, but I humbly submit, we have more control over our destiny then we think!

Imagine a world where we get up in the morning, are filled with energy and enthusiasm about the day and nothing will stand in our way! We are a force of nature and nature does not step aside for life, she forges her own path! Mindset, health and happiness are great starting metrics to taking as much charge as one can over our future. Is one burdened by pressures they cannot reconcile to physical events and/or measurements? Is one in good health, bad health or anything in between and is that individual happy??

If you feel happy, are of a positive mindset and in good health, then you are well positioned to dream your future and plot a course for a longer term happiness that only you can make happen! With mind, body and purpose at a good starting point, becoming mentally flexible is about sharpening the mental pencil whilst at the same time living a healthy lifestyle that supports your aspirations and your mental agility.

So, we have a sense of where we are at from our self evaluation, let's get started on next steps:

Sharpening the mental pencil - IQ exercises like the workout on mensa.org or any IQ testing site is a must to regiment the mind into certain types of processing. Its a mental workout that sharpens deductive reasoning and mathematical ability. Doing it daily for 30 mins is a must, expect mental agility improvements after 8 weeks or so. After that, 30 minutes twice a week is enough to keep that mental pencil sharpened.

Free the mind - learning mindfulness was a big learning step in my own self discovery and development. I recommend it for everyone BUT be warned, there are allot of snake oil salesmen and women out there looking to sell you nothing at a profit. Be sure your mindfulness vendor is recommended and effective. If you are a good fit for it, you will learn it very fast!

Develop your focus constantly - Primary attention (full attention) doesn’t last long past 35 minutes at a time so keeping high level focus is a task best served with regular breaks from high level mental activity. A 2 min break to do something else or get a glass of water is all that is needed. The more you do that, the better regimented your mind becomes in being focused. This focus can deliver you to new heights of mental performance!

So, with focusing on your mind under way, lets think about good advice for the body:

Exercise - 30 mins a day, 3 times a week. In addition, a 20 min walk daily is a good addition to any exercise regime. A healthy body breeds a healthy mind

Sleep - Don’t skimp on sleep, you will never become mentally agile sleep deprived! 6-8 hours a night and try to get to bed around the same time every night. A good routine increases the benefits of sleep.

Food - Fresh food regularly taken in 3-4 meals of reasonable size is the best fuel for you. A good breakfast, a healthy dinner and an evening meal that is light is the best formula for good health. High fibre (apples/pears/green vegetables) should be part of the daily diet and junk food along with alcohol should be taken in moderation. You would be surprised how impacting digestion related illness is to mental acuity and overall wellbeing.

Eye Test – as we get older, our vision detiorites and those of use married to our laptops <<<cough!!… programmers, cough!!>>>, slight double vision can set in with accompanying headaches. Don’t strain your eyes and become distracted with headaches, get tested and use glasses if necessary.

Socialise - Call a friend, grab a coffee and talk about the weather. Small talk matters as it gives the brain a rest and embraces our group nature. We are social creatures!

Needless to say, our path to mental acuity and strong focus is an individual one. We don’t all sail in the same slip stream as each other! However, when we are mentally agile, our focus is a powerful tool in discerning our environment, the moving parts in it and the opportunities we have to chisel out our own future… If we surmise that our preparation, training and readiness for the life ahead of us is in place, we can then set about charting its course.


On a final note, we can do whatever we want within reason so why not build a career on a ladder that leads to happiness, loving without boundaries those closest to us and decades from now, leaving this world a slightly better place? That is what I have concluded in my latest career change where my passion has been ignited for technology. It embraces my mind in enjoyable detail and delights my intellect in problems that need to be solved! It’s also frustrating, hard and overwhelming at times, but where it’s easy to give up, my passion stirs me onwards and with it a new day is born with greater understanding and commitment! Why not join me and celebrate this marvellous innovation together, it’s our life, our focus and our dream!!..


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Monday, 13 July 2015

The Future of Things…

Hindsight, is it too little too late?




Steve Jobs said in 2005 at a Stanford graduation ceremony “Again, you can’t connect the dots going forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect to your future.”  

He was a very insightful man who understood the world we lived in at a deeper level then most that often try to connect the dots going forward and in doing so; ignore the lessons of the past.  In ignoring the past, I submit we become un-centred in our thoughts, decisions and actions leaving us prone to intuitive bias, assumptive errors and wild card comparisons that blind us to how good things could be versus how they look! If we had only connected the dots in hindsight, then the future would be visible through a much clearer lens.  With this understanding of where have come from kept in perspective, mapping out a successful future becomes an achievable goal indeed! The question is; what part does hindsight play in this venture?


Hindsight can be a valuable asset as much as a dreaded liability, which is why we need to use it discerningly. If we look too deeply into the past, we can become trapped in the emotion of the day, which clouds our judgement and our ability to accurately connect the dots for a brighter future! To quote Polonius from Hamlet, “To thine own self be true”. If we don’t deceive ourselves as to our actual place in the world, where we have come from and be at peace where we want to go, we can bring the best of us into the future whilst accepting the rest and stowing it away in its rightful place, which is in our past! 

In order to do this and properly place hindsight in its rightful context, I submit the following is necessary to increase chances of a successful outcome when looking into our past in order to join meaningful dots together so we can map out a successful future….


Be at peace – As my dear old mother would say “draw from the past, don’t let the past draw from you!” Her incredible insights have shown that if we truly come to terms with who we are and are at peace with it, then we can see a future with the benefit and not the baggage of the past. Such a future is what belongs to us rather then what others expect of us!

Know thine self - Not knowing who we truly are and what we are capable of as human beings is a common malady that most are not even aware of. True self-reflection requires meditative commitment and digging deeper into yourself for answers. It is a must if you are to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and the world around you. Techniques like mindfulness are aids to a deeply relaxed state of being that can lead to deep high functioning thought on self reflection and strategizing for the future.

Accept the negatives - Nobody is free from being victimised, being wronged and being targeted unfairly in this world! It’s a fact of life and often leaves real scars seen and unseen on us all, which is why we should not ignore them! If the offending party are brought to justice (or not) by society’s rules and limitations, the personal hurt will still remain. We need to accept our being in the world and the injury caused on us so we can heal and move on. The scars that remain should be celebrated within our own hearts and minds as part of “who we are” as they become the toughest part of our psyche that we can use for good into the future. Another favourite saying of mine comes into mind on accepting the negatives “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!” By accepting the negatives, we become free of the dead weight that will pull our future down and thus give rise to a brighter day going forward!

“Connect the dots” to paint a picture – In reaching a balanced and powerful state of being, perceptual paths open up to us, which re-orientates our perception of the past to a new state. With this in mind, looking into the future allows us to see what’s right for us right now and more discerningly chose a path into the future that is aided by hindsight, not hindered by it.


Another old saying that is close to my heart is “never make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion”, which is why after my redundancy in 2012, I formulated the above process to come to grips with my past, my present and map a better future that is good for me! My experience led me to testing and research on where my passion lies, which is why I decided to switch from Finance to Software and despite the risks, set backs and challenges, I have not regretted a single minute of it! The reason why it is possible is because this time, its something I am doing with the past behind me, the present with me and the future ahead of me, which allows me to bring my mind, my passion and my very being on the journey into a space where I belong!

I don’t know if I will be successful despite early successes in academia and aptitude. However, fuelled with passion and ability along with a deeper sense of the world, my chances of success can only very good indeed! If we are to be happy in this world, shouldn’t we start from within and share it with the world so the world can share its happiness with us? I think so, what do you think? Leave your opinions on your life skills experience… Share some happiness with the world today!!... 



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Contribution of photo (British Post Box on streak street) on unsplash.com by Luis Llerena

Contribution of photo (Woman on ledge) on unsplash.com by Julius Caesar